partially answered my own question,
http://ore.lt/sounds/fsoundv110/Readme.txt that shows what the format of the xml file should be (pasted below) .... but i
still dont know what to name the xml file or whereabouts i define what xml file
the swf should read..... still need help if theres any out there...
Playlist XML format
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XML definition:
<FSound-XML /> | Root container
<playlist /> | Playlist container
<entry /> | Track container
Playstring | Path attribut
<Name /> | Track Name
<Length /> | Track Length in ms
The XML playlist should look like the follwing sample.
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<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?>
<FSound-XML>
<playlist>
<entry Playstring="../MP3/01 - Lexxodus - Lay Down.mp3">
<Name>Lexodus - Lay Down</Name>
<Length>376000</Length>
</entry>
<entry Playstring="../MP3/02 - Dirty Vegas - Days go by (Acoustic
Version).mp3">
<Name>Dirty Vegas - Days go by (Acoustic Version)</Name>
<Length>164000</Length>
</entry>
</playlist>
</FSound-XML>