flash (macromedia):

PLEASE let me know if you've figured this one out - I need to do the exact same
thing....have been racking my brain...tried a bunch of different scripts can't
get this to happen!

seems like there should be a behavior for this simple function.

Here is the solution using Flash 8, components, and actionscripting. Make sure
the playback component is named "vid":

vid.contentPath = "yourmovie.flv";
var vidList : Object = new Object();

vidList.complete = function() {
gotoAndPlay(frame number or "label"); //put in where you want to go when the
video ends
}
vid.addEventListener ("complete",vidList);
stop();