macromedia flash flashcom:

Sure... it can coexist on a machine with other server devices. You just need to
manage your ports a bit.

FMS likes to have access to ports 1935, 80, 443, and 1111 (1111 is for the
admin service). Since IIS will be using port 80, you'll want to give FMS it's
own IP address (and configure IIS to not bind with that ip).